MOTHERHOOD...
October 15, 1965, I was 15year old, my parents were separated and I was kept with mum’s friend who is always maltreating me. I lost my virginity to Mr Kass, who promised to take me to London but never did.
December 12, 1965, I did the first evacuation/abortion for Mr Delan. After losing my virginity; I lost my self-esteem and after the abortion, I became guiltier than I can ever imagine. Now, I see no reason for keeping my body anymore, I started sharing it all around.
June 18, 1970, I met a popular footballer, who was sleeping with me and I never asked him for anything, when he was about leaving for Europe, he asked why I was not taking anything, then I said, ‘when my mother was still with me, she told us every time that, we should not take anything from anyone we are not going to marry.’ The guy felt so sorry for me and said ‘that was very wrong, she should have told you not to allow any man sleep with you as well, that was half-truth’ He gave me a lot of money and left because he is married over there.
February…1972 through Sepember1976, I met the Lord Jesus, He forgive my sin and make me whole. I felt a serious peace, I was baptized and discipled, I became a child of God and in no time became a deaconess, teaching children and youth the way of the Lord. I met a wonderful handsome man who is also fervent in the Lord. He proposed to me and I told him my past but he did not care.
Dec 20, 1977, One of my happiest day on earth. We were blessed with a set of triplet-two girls and a boy. I am so lucky, no, I am highly favoured. I found grace, after six different abortions, the last was with complication, I almost died. God is faithful and merciful. Hmn! If some do it today, they might not be so lucky.
May 27, 2014, I am happy because today my children and my grandchildren are with me-including my adopted homeless and motherless children; they flew down all the way from Canada to spend the day with me-my birthday. My husband is a popular man of God and successful in directing our family business, while I still remain the chairperson. The children arise and call me blessed.
However, I am ANGRY, because some parents in this generation are still like my mother: they do not know when the girl start menstruating, no sex education-which ought to be done immediately the child can understand her body part. No proper care, no friendship between mother and child, they keep fighting with their husband and the children keep learning the act. I am going to do all I can to enlighten mothers all over the world and I shall be a blessing to the next generation as well
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