Tuesday, 8 March 2016

Moving On ~ My Husband is my Hero

Chinasa was on her knees yet again begging Simon with tears rolling down her cheek, she had walked out the door wishing that Simon would call her back,
hold her....
Kiss her and tell her he was only joking.
But no, Simon seemed serious this time.

This was not his first time of breaking up.
But Chinasa would always plead to be re-absolved back into Simon's life.
Their relationship has gone four years with so much sex and gifts to show for it.
Chinasa was already 31 years and was wishing she ends up with Simon this time.
But alas, It seems to be to be the end to yet another long relationship for her.
Chinasa was a genuine wife material, very faithful to her past boyfriends when they dated.
She literally gives her all to any guy she dates, But some way, some how, they just get fed up with her.
It's not that she was ugly.
It's not that she's bad mannered.
Should we say she's just unlucky ?

She had just two boyfriends while schooling at Abia State University.
The first one who de-flowered her, dumped her after their first year, while the second one dumped her after their final exams.
At Nysc, she dated a very cute, gentle guy who cherished her so much.
This guy wanted to come marry her but he was rejected by her family, on the claim that the guy was from the Osu Caste Family.
What a heart breaking end to her sweet relationship.
Chinasa later spent years being all alone by herself - No boyfriend.
At this time, the only class of men that was coming for her was the married ones.
She fears that the law of Karma would catch up with her if she gives in.
So, she tried as much as she could to avoid some of them.
She however, fell for some of them whom she had brief dates with. But, she always cuts the relationship on realizing that it won't end up anywhere for her.

Then came Simon, an immigration officer with a promising career.
At first, he was all over Chinasa,,,
It took time before Chi could start having any feelings for him.
She had given up on men... And omarriage.
All her close friends had got married and she was at all their bridal trains.
She would cry all night, praying to God to give her a husband of her own.
Could Simon be an answer to that prayer ?

Chinasa initially saw Simon as a player who had come to have a taste of her and run away.
But she was proven wrong,,, Simon stayed for One... Two... Three years, still looking promising.
She then had no doubt that Simon was truly the one.
But hearing this now was a total disaster to her - Simon has just broken up with her.
At first, he demanded that she gives him a break to think up some things.
But now, it is very clear to her.
On her knees, she begged and begged and begged, but Simon was not moved.
He must have found a woman that he would marry,
But why wasn't Chinasa good enough for him to marry.
Four Good Year of Relationship ???
Four good years of wasting a young lady's life ?
Imagine how many men Chinasa must have turned down all because of Simon.
Oh Life !!!

Chinasa would always cry afterwards...
Suicidal thoughts was always roaring inside her head but somehow, she appeared to survive and kept on.
Her office colleagues was soon to find out that she was already losing weight.
Gossips later went round that it was all because of Simon.
They just had nothing but pity for her.
.
Months later,
She was getting herself back.
Right now, she has decided to stay off men and their relationship 'wahala'.
At the appointed time, she also planned to adopt a child.
She has finally given up!
.
Then, one weekend,
She got a call from her mum.
It seems her family needed her attention.
Arriving at her family house,
She was stunned by what they told her;
Charles, her first childhood love was planning to return from America after 10 years there.
He had been informed by his own parents that she was still single.
So, he is coming to see if......
.
One week later, Charles who had returned was sitting side by side with Chinasa...
They recalled and reminisced all their childhood moments.
It was the purest relationship that they both had had in their lives.
They were both virgins at that time...
And they never had sex.

Charles was serious after two weeks discussing with her, trying to know all he could about her...
He Really Wants To Marry Chinasa...
Oh dear!
After dating for long years, hoping it ends in marriage,
So, it would be just these few weeks relationship that would lead Chinasa to the altar ?
Life is indeed, mysterious...
Chi never believed it.... It's happening so fast!

Chinasa gradually rejuvenated her emotions back and found a way to love again.
To Charles, he was just lucky to meet Chi still single.
This is the only woman he has loved truly.
First Love, truly dies hard!

Two weeks later,
They got married traditionally and later headed to the registry.
And the Big One ?
Charles flew back into the states with his new wife; Chinasa.
They ll be back again the following year for the white wedding.

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